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Miss Understood

Have you ever found yourself caught in a situation where you feel completely misunderstood? I cringe in those moments. I want to be seen for the woman I am, the gifts and talents I possess, but sometimes, it doesn't matter. Sometimes, I'm dismissed before I even have...

Feeling Guilty? Full of Shame?

How do you plan on running through this life? Feeling guilty? Full of shame? Or free? Free to carry your cross. Jesus gives us an example of how to run with endurance in this life. For the joy set before Him, He endured the cross and despised the shame. It’s important...

This Left Me Sobbing On the Floor

Twenty years ago, I met Ruby. I was ten years old when she spotted me sitting under a tree in the summer heat of St. Louis at a gathering of adopted children from India. Alone with my thoughts in the shade, I was overwhelmed by meeting other children who looked like...

I Want The Grace That Hushes Shame

Some time ago, I scrolled through my social media feed and stumbled upon a video of a woman in court accepting her fate as the judge read a list detailing her unpaid parking tickets. Tears streamed down the convicted woman’s face as the judge asked questions...

Do You Think You Are Lovable?

In my own life, I have grappled for the truth but unintentionally settled for a lie and shame. I struggled to believe I was lovable in my most vulnerable moment: infancy. If I wasn’t worthy of keeping, surely I wasn’t worthy of loving. This lie of my life kept me from...

Shame, Shame, Shame

Shame seems to be hard-wired in all of us. At times it appears as though we can’t escape shame, and it gets the best of us. It attempts to dictate who we are and what we’re worth. It mares the soul. We often see others through our shame, and it’s our shame that has a...

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